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January
Stay single until you meet someone who runs as fast as you do. You are unstoppably ambitious, so if you want to be in a long-term relationship, you need to find someone who can keep up with you, challenge you, and support you. Stay single until you meet the person who not only improves your life, but also improves you because of their support, encouraging love, and inspirational attributes.
February
Stay single until you meet someone who would never try to change you into someone you are not. One of your best attributes is not only that you are your own person, but that you are proud, confident, and at ease with your own personhood. You never strive to fit in or please others, and you deserve someone who will adore you for it. Stay single until you meet someone who wants you to beat your own drum as they beat theirs, and who makes you feel safe, secure, and entirely adored for who you are.
March
Continue to be single until you find someone who wants to take care of you first. Your compassion, generosity, and warmth are wonderful qualities, but they are only earned by those who want to care for you and treat you with the same kindness that you do for them. So be single until you meet the person who prioritizes you above all other people and things, who is always looking for small and large ways to show you how much you mean to them, and who will never take you for granted for a second.
April
Stay alone until you find someone who appreciates your spark rather than fears it. Some people don’t know how to deal with you since you’re confident in yourself, you won’t apologize for being yourself, and you’re unforgettable. So you deserve to be with someone who admires your self-assurance and unapologetic confidence rather than being jealous or afraid of them. Stay single until you find the person who only wants to grow with you and never wants you to shrink.
May
Stay single until you meet someone who understands you and ‘gets’ you in an uncomplicated and easy way. You’re the type of person that knows exactly what they want, and you should never feel the need to apologize for being focused, ambitious, and confident about the path your life should take. You deserve someone who wants to be a part of your life, not someone who is looking for an explanation. Stay single until you find someone who wants to grow alongside you, learn new things with you, and, most importantly, run alongside you.
June
Continue to be single until you meet someone who provides you with a thousand times more joy than pain. Relationships will always be difficult and demanding, but they should not be excruciatingly painful or gut-wrenching. When you’re with the right person, you have to swallow your pride and make concessions and take chances with your heart from time to time, but it doesn’t mean you have to cope with heartbreak all the time and feel inadequate or not as loved as you could be. So stay single until you discover someone who not only loves you for your big heart but also makes a daily effort to take care of your heart and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
July
Stay single until you meet someone who appreciates the deeper side of you as much as the light, sparkly side. People are drawn to you and like being around you because of your warm demeanor and brilliant energy. But when it comes to getting to know individuals on a deeper level than the first, simple, fun, and goofy level, you’re always afraid, and overwhelmed, and you’ll never be good enough. But you need someone who isn’t scared to be vulnerable with you and understands that things aren’t always going to be great. So, be single until you meet the one who actually loves you for all of you – the fun, brilliant, and, more importantly, the complex, vulnerable, and imperfect parts of you.
August
Stay single until you find someone who feels like a fair and capable match for you. You’re a handful – in a good way. You have a natural gift for leadership, are courageous, and are a force to be reckoned with. However, you also suffer from pride, restlessness, and impulsive behavior. So be single until you meet someone who can keep up with you – someone who never tries to alter you into someone you’re not, but also knows when to put their foot down and how to stand up for themselves.
September
Stay single until you meet someone who understands you on a deeper emotional and intimate level.You are extremely confident in your abilities and the goals you wish to achieve, and you work harder than anybody you know. However, you have the propensity to drive people away when they get too close – you’ll become critical, say things you don’t mean, or reject your own heart even though it knows what it wants. Stay single until you find someone who isn’t scared to work through that in order to be with you – someone who is secure and confident enough in themselves to present themselves totally to you and encourages you to do the same.
October
Continue to be single until you find someone who takes you out of your own head. You’ve never had trouble making friends, and you probably never will; your charm is effortless, and you readily offer and accept affection. But you clearly suffer from worrying about what other people think, fussing over trivial matters, and becoming trapped in your own mind’s overly anxious ideas. Stay single until you meet someone who can help you get to the other side – who can help you live a little lighter and stop caring so much about everyone else’s thoughts that you forget to live joyously and currently in your own life.
November
Continue to be single until you meet someone who will bring much-needed balance into your life.You should never try to squash your sense of ambition, your desire to accomplish great things, and your insatiable curiosity and enthusiasm for life. But, for your own mental and emotional health and wellness, you must remember to slow down, rest, and take a break from time to time. Stay single until you meet someone who will help you do this – someone who will never hold you back while also making sure you are constantly taking care of yourself so that you can continue to grow into the greatest person you can be.
December
Continue to be single until you meet someone who brings calm, tranquility, and patience into your life. There’s nothing wrong with being an active, eager, and go-getter; these are some of your best qualities. But there is a problem when you try to do too many things at once: you might become impatient and hurried, failing to look at the big picture, and you occasionally need to be reminded to just breathe. Stay single until you meet the person who can do this for you – the one who not only supports and encourages you but also provides you the tranquillity and quiet that you’ve been missing in your life for a long time.
