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January
If you’re not careful, your ambition will push your individual away. It’s good that you have high aspirations, and you should be proud of yourself for working hard to achieve them. But you can’t make work your entire universe. If you do not treat your person as a priority, they will become tired of being second best.
February
If you’re not careful, your secrecy will drive your person away. You don’t have to tell your individual everything about your thoughts and feelings, but you shouldn’t shut them off either. There will always be distance between you if you do not make an attempt to speak with them or purposefully keep secrets from them.
March
If you’re not careful, your sarcasm will push your person away. You try your utmost to have a good time all the time, but your individual may not always want you to reply with jokes and sarcasm. They expect you to be serious at times. They prefer serious discussions over frivolous ones.
April
If you’re not careful, your impatience will push your person away. You can’t expect them to go at your pace, and if you force them to change their minds before they’re ready, they’ll become uncomfortable with you. You must be patient. Give them some time.
May
If you’re not careful, your stubbornness will push your person away. You are steadfast in your beliefs, which is typically a good thing, but in a serious relationship, you must be willing to listen. You must listen to your person and occasionally compromise with them. You can’t always get your way.
June
If you’re not careful, your forgetfulness will push your person away. They want to feel like you’re paying attention when they talk, that you care about what they have to say — yet missing birthdays, anniversaries, and even food orders will make them feel like you’re not paying attention at all. As if you’re not putting out any effort.
July
If you’re not careful, your apathy will push your person away. They are unlikely to desire to make all of the decisions in the relationship. They, too, want your feedback. So, if you always let them choose what to eat and where to go on dates, they’ll eventually become frustrated.
August
If you’re not careful, your envy will drive your person away. You don’t want to come across as commanding. You don’t want to force them to pick between their friends, their career, and their relationships. They can have it all. You can’t be the center of their universe every waking moment.
September
If you’re not careful, your rigorous routine will push your person away. They will not always want to plan out every minute of their day. They may want to go out and have fun without knowing what to anticipate. They’ll want to try new things in new places. They will become bored if you do not change your schedule even slightly.
October
If you’re not careful, your fear of confrontation will drive your individual away. You may believe you are being considerate by keeping your problems to yourself, but the relationship cannot grow and change if you are not honest about what you want. You must be honest with your partner or they will never provide you with what you require.
November
If you’re not careful, your impulsiveness will push your individual away. While being spontaneous can keep the relationship interesting, there is a time and place for it. When it comes to love, you don’t want to be too erratic. You don’t want your partner to be wondering where you stand or what crazy thing you’re going to do next. You must be constant in order for them to feel at ease with you.
December
If you’re not careful, your apathy will push your person away. You care, but you don’t always show it on the exterior. However, if it appears like you could care less whether you hear from your spouse or not, they will conclude that there is no passion. As if you don’t care enough about them.
