Isn’t it true that most of us want to meet our soulmates? It’s one of those things that everyone has on their to-do list. While some people find their soulmates quickly and fall in love easily, others require some self-work before they’re ready for the one. If you’re one of these four zodiac signs, you’ll need to put in some effort before finding your soulmate.
Most people perceive you as disorganized and contradictory. While you may not be as much of a jerk as your reputation suggests, they’re still on to something, right? With your moods changing like a light switch, it can be difficult to attract someone with the calm energy you might find in your soulmate. You’ll probably need to relax for a while before you’re ready to find the one. And that’s fine! We’re all works in progress who need time to find ourselves before we can genuinely be ready for love.
You have a knack for attaining what you desire. You’re brave and self-assured, and if you see something–or someone–you desire, you simply ask. The trouble is that you rarely pause to consider whether this individual is genuinely suited for you. You’ll miss out on waiting for something extraordinary if you only live through flights of imagination. Take some time to consider what you truly want and require in a mate. When you have a list, don’t take anything less. Patience isn’t your strong suit, but it will pay off in the end.
You have difficulty trusting new individuals. After all, if you’re vulnerable, you’re more likely to be injured. You undoubtedly already know this: You can’t meet someone wonderful if you refuse to let them in. That is, of course, easier said than done. Just know that as you get more comfortable expressing yourself to the world, the world will rise to meet you. It is worthwhile to put in the effort.
You have a lot of self-assurance, which is fantastic! While there’s nothing wrong with believing you’re amazing and know what’s best, there’s a risk that you’ll be so focused on yourself that you won’t realize what’s right in front of you. Spend some time being more aware of your surroundings. How does it appear? Taste? Sound? Your heart will be open enough to find the one as soon as you learn to value everyone and everything.